How to overcome The Hurdles of Self Doubts And self-limiting beliefs and achieve your goals
Are you a young entrepreneur who is just starting out, or an experienced one looking to reach the next level of success? If so, then it’s time to start dreaming big! Because as anyone successful in business will tell you – the extent to which we let ourselves dream is notably linked with how strongly we are able to achieve our goals. There’s a reason why kids have wild imaginations and entrepreneurs think outside the box – they don’t limit their dreams by the boundaries of reality. To take your career further, why not challenge yourself today and begin dreaming bigger than ever!
Do you dream big? When it comes to our ambitions, most of us tend to limit ourselves with fear and self-doubt. Despite knowing that anything can be achieved if we put our minds to it, we don’t always let ourselves reach out to those faraway stars. But what does that mean for the future of our lives? By allowing ourselves to make audacious goals, no matter how daunting or “unrealistic” they may seem on paper, can lead us down a path filled with greater opportunities than ever before. That’s why today is the time for young entrepreneurs—men, women and people of all ages—to take action by dreaming bigger dreams than ever before!
HOW TO RELEASE YOURSELF
Have you ever felt trapped—whether it be in your job, your relationships, or just yourself? It’s common to get stuck, but I’ll show you how to move past it.
My goal is to help you realize that we all possess a lot of untapped potential inside of us. I think that we are only making a small portion of our potential users. We can use a technique or process to unleash that potential once we are aware of what holds us back. Just decide what to do, “What am I actually hoping to become? What might I be able to accomplish?” These and many more are pertinent questions to ask. Enhancing the caliber of our thinking is what we must do. We can apply some processes that result in significant growth by understanding how our minds operate.
THE EXCUSES WE OFTEN MAKE THAT STOP US FROM GROWING
It has often been said that you are either born with a certain quality, or you’re not. That your heredity is the ultimate determiner of your ability to accomplish tasks and succeed in life. First Nature — our innate potential given to us at birth — is important, no doubt, but it is drastically overshadowed by Second Nature, which refers to what we learn during our various exposures and experiences in life, between birth and adulthood. Your First Nature may determine how talented you are in a certain field when compared to another individual, but it does not dictate the height of your hidden potential. You have an incredible capacity to grow through self-development, practice, and sheer determination; all qualities that can be acquired through continuous effort despite our First Nature. Many have the misconception that their First Nature prohibits them from ever achieving greatness when in fact all humans have the same capability to achieve great feats if they channel their First Nature for growth and improvement.
We tend to attribute something to first nature as the cause of who we are right now in order to avoid having to make any real changes. For instance, if you’re angry, you might say, “Simply put, that’s how I am. This one came with me at birth “and do not feel the need to alter it. This can just be the case in various areas of our lives that we are supposed to improve, and we just hang it on our first nature, which in fact plays much less role, compared to our second nature in terms of our growth and potential to achieve greatness.
Know this today as a reminder, if you have heard it before, and as an eye-opener, if you haven’t; we all do have the capacity to influence the outcomes of our lives. It is within our power to make the dreams we have a reality. Vital questions to ask include; “How do I make it happen?” “How do I bring about the kind of life, family, business, and relationships I envision?” Your perception of how resilient you are on the inside will influence the dreams you have.
CAUSATIVE ABILITY
Many are quick to take the easy way out and just say “I’m no good at this; I can’t do that,” they say so when they feel incapable.
– Your goals are modest. But the bigger the dream, the stronger you are inside. This dream is referred to as an aspiration, goal, vision, or idea.
1. What are your business goals?
2. What are your plans for the future of your business?
3. What are your thoughts on work/life balance?
4. What are your thoughts on family and work?
5. What are your thoughts on leadership?
6. How can I make my home more comfortable?
7. What are some ideas for increasing my income?
8. What do I need to do to become a better leader?
These and many more should not scare you because your ideas about the type of business, home, income, family, leadership, etc. you want are more influenced by your perception of how strong you are on the inside than by your potential, though that is a part of it.
HOW TO TEST YOUR CAUSATIVE ABILITY
If you have an idea or a dream about what you want, you may unconsciously ask yourself, “Is this bigger than me, or am I bigger than it?” To put it another way, “Could I purchase it? Could I keep my job? Could I take on the burden? Is it possible for me to make that happen?” If you know how and believe you are capable, you will feel larger than the task or goal. If you see a problem or a goal that you believe is too big for you, even if you have the potential, tension and anxiety build up inside of you, and you become fearful.
Let’s be honest – dreaming big is often frightening. But it doesn’t have to paralyze you. Instead, consider the goal that intimidates you as a challenge and use it to fuel your growth instead of letting fear stand in the way! So here’s what I want from you: no compromising on aspirations just because they seem overwhelming – embrace being intimidated but don’t let that stop you; expand beyond those boundaries for success awaits! We don’t need to be realists – let’s shoot for the stars! Aim beyond what we think is achievable and step out of our comfort zones. When facing a goal that seems too big, it’s OK if intimidation takes over…but never accept this feeling as permanent – use it instead to fuel your ambition and grow beyond all expectations.
Ready to break out of your comfort zone? Join me on a journey that will encourage you to push the boundaries and make those dreams become reality. I’ll show you how, step-by-step, so even if it may seem unattainable now – with some determination and hard work from both of us – anything is possible!
THE POWER OF PERSISTENCE
Persistence is one of the components needed to cause things you want, to happen. Many people give up far too easily and quickly. They have a lot of dreams, but any little problem that gets in their way, even the smallest difficulty, brings them to their knees and causes them to quit too soon. So you must strengthen your internal resolve:
Many of you have given up on your childhood dreams. You’ve had too many setbacks along the way, too many people telling you you weren’t capable, weren’t smart enough, or were taking on more than you could handle. I’m going to tell you that you shouldn’t bite off more than you can chew! That is the correct thing to do.
No matter what people tell you, never give up on your dreams. Success is achieved through persistence – the more obstacles you face along the way, the stronger and wiser it will make you in achieving them! Make sure to always push yourself out of your comfort zone – that’s how true success lies. Show those who said “no” all they’re missing by not letting any barrier stand in this path. Stay focused on what matters most and nothing can stop you from reaching for greatness!
ON A FINAL NOTE
We need to let ourselves dream big dreams, and go after them with everything we have. The strength of our dreams is linked to how strong we are inside, and how persistent we are will determine how successful we are in achieving them. We learned about adjusting our behavior accordingly as we go for those big dreams. By improving the quality of our thinking, and learning how our mind works, we can apply processes that help us achieve great things. Are you biting off more than you can chew? You should be! Let’s dream big and go after those dreams with everything we’ve got! So I challenge you now to assess how much of your potential you are using – and go out there and make your dreams a reality.
